I don't think the issue of the pins getting into the wrong hands is always a member's fault. THey could have outlined it in a will, but if the person taking care of their estate doesn't understand how important it is, they won't bother with the whole mess. It's easier to make a quick buck. This is why we must educate our family members on how important it is to us so they will take the time to take care of it when we are gone.
P.S. I was on ebay yesterday and there is another guy who is selling a bunch of pins and has a really NASTY explaination of his feelings. He even laughs in our faces. I don't think his name was Skidmarks, but these two must have been separated at birth.