[Scandia]

I never said I was not romantic. I am very idealistic and daydream about finding true love very often. But I am just not mushy. It would take the right person to get affection beyond a quick hug from me- and this is with everyone, not just in the romance realm. I do give flowers and gifts- but it takes the right person for me to feel something and want to sing a love poem and the sort.

He posted pics- he somewhat taller and a bit stronger than what I would prefer, but his coloring is fine. He posted a pic of himself in uniform with a baby he delivered- if that does not give a good impression, then I do not know what will.

I agree that description-wise and picture-wise, he is not someone I would have approached first. But given the bad things that have happened (stalking, psychological abuse) and the good things that have not happened (finding the right person and having a serious long term relationship) in this domain, shouldn't I be more grateful and give him a chance?

I have not messaged him back, btw. This weekend is not good for me anyway.