[KSUViolet06]

Question: Are you saying that there is not ONE girl in the chapter who shares your interests? Or is that what you're assuming?

You really do have to put yourself out there and hang out with different groups of sisters before you can say that NO ONE in the chapter shares your interests. It's hard to believe that out of an ENTIRE chapter of girls, not one will go out with you.

And to be quite honest, yes going out is fun, but is that the only aspect of the sorority that makes you want to quit? I find that to be really silly, especially if there are other things about the chapter that you like.

Also, something to ponder: How do you know that you'll even get a bid if you depledge and rush again?

And if you did get a bid to another chapter next year, how do you know that girls in THAT chapter will share your interests? It could end up being the same situation all over again.

I always encourage people to stick it out, just because you never know what you could be giving up. However, if all you're going to do is sit back and complain about people not wanting to go out with you, maybe it's best for you to drop out (thus mkaing room for someone who actually wants to be there).