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Old 12-04-2008, 01:59 PM
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Originally Posted by KSig RC View Post
Part of me wants to go along with the term "breeder" as an actual descriptor (as in, currently we don't have the physical capability for a same-sex couple to conceive together without scientific assistance, whereas the overwhelming majority of opposite-sex couples have that potential, at least to the extent that we can recognize it as a substantive difference) . . . but doesn't that sort of play into the homophobic or anti-homosexual rights movement's (illogical) arguments regarding not applying identical rights for those couples because they don't have identical familial capabilities?

I'm all for "taking back" the word "queer" and I think any group has the general right to self-identify any way they want - trust me, we've had to run research to find out whether a certain area preferred the term "black" or "African-American" from an old, white attorney - but this seems like an awkward way to fight that battle.

This is very stream-of-consciousness, and I'm not sure why, but there it is. Am I completely off base or overthinking this?
Your stream of conscious is highlighting that there are things embedded in our language (and actions) that are taken for granted if we aren't critical.

It's like when I get annoyed when men call me a "girl" or refer to a group of women as "guys." A lot of women don't care about this but I look at what's embedded in it and how it can be used for different agendas. This doesn't mean that I correct people everysingletime that I want to, but I raise my eyebrow everytime.
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