[VioletPearl29]

My big sister just got married in October and she means the world to me! She went alum and then got engaged, so she never got to have a candlelight while active. At the reception, (I talked to her husband beforehand to make sure he was okay with us doing it) I surprised her by having all the Sigma Kappas form a circle and we did a candlelight there to honor her and send her off in the proper SigK way! After the candle light, I had the DJ play "Come On Eileen" and we all did our kick circle with the bride in the center. She later said that her husband teared up because he knew what it meant to her and he was happy but sad at the same time because it was something that he could not do for her.