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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
PNMs don't sometimes understand the "mutual" part of mutual selection and sometimes think they're just picking a sorority.
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Thats quite true, we have deferred rush on my campus, and I do see PNMs who act as if they're the ones in control because of the very small portion of greek life they've seen first semester. At a meet the greeks event, one PNM said to me, "Thanks for being so nice and showing me pictures and stuff, but don't waste your time, I'm going to be an ABC". And there was the girl who said to me, "But you're so blonde, why didn't you pick XYZ?" Often no one ever tells them otherwise, and they end up receiving quite a rude awakening once they get their first invites back.