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Originally Posted by WVU alpha phi
At the beginning of each day, why were you automatically assuming you'd get invited back to the sororities you put down?
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As I see it, this is one of the problems with PNMs ranking each day after parties instead of receiving a list of invitations from which to accept. When a PNM ranks a chapter low, it is somewhat natural for them to feel like they have “released” that chapter. This is a process that is new to them and often it is not fully explained. We’ve all seen the posts from PNMs and new members whose recruitment counselors have insufficiently explained preference cards or pressured them into listing a chapter to which they would not accept a bid. If a recruitment counselor tells a PNM to list chapters at the bottom to which she would rather not return, it can come as quite a shock to be returning to those chapters the next day.