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					Originally Posted by  jaredrdr
					 
				 
				I'm not a "bigoted" person 33girl. I'd actually say I'm more tolerant that both my mom and her frat boy bf. I'm gay, and thats why he was always a dick to me in high school and still is. I don't approve of her behavior, or why she's dating a guy i wen to school with. Please don't judge me, or better yet, don't accuse me of being something I'm not. 
			
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 Then quit using terms like "frat boy" as pejoratives - especially when you haven't even clarified that the guy was actually IN a fraternity.  Labeling an entire group of people with a stereotype is bigotry, no 2 ways about it.  Nothing you have said makes you seem the least bit "tolerant."
Your mom is an adult.  She's attracted to who she's attracted to.  Deal with it.