[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Remedyignae

During the month of March I attended a formal interest meeting for Sorority #1. It was great until they disclosed some shocking information."We don't RUSH we PLEDGE" the president admitted.

When school started back in August my supervisor (a member of Sorority #1) was pushing me to join but I didn't. The undergrad chapter told her that I was interested and they really wanted me. Its been a disaster ever since.

Bottomline...I no longer want to join sorority #1. I was abused as a child and I refuse to take an unnecessary beat down. I am now interested in sorority #2. I feel like going to the meeting for #1 was a mistake and I was only pleasing my family. Sorority #2 satisfies my needs and plus they don't haze.

Is it possible to join sorority #2 without causing problems. Im certain that they won't have a problem but I know sorority #1 and my supervisor would be disappointed at the least. Help! Should I just wait until I graduate to join the grad chapter or do you have any HELPFUL suggestion??

Please don't preach to me, saying "you should have done your research"...just help me clear up this mistake. If 22 AKAs changed their mind, Im sure I can too. Thanks

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