Delicious,
I'll be honest, I don't know what it's like to go to a Southern school where you're either your Greek or your on the sidelines; however, I'll pretty sure that at one point or another, almost everyone has had a bad experience with their chapter and thought about quitting. BUT, what I got out of your post is that you're a really dedicated sister and even though you're having a crappy time with your chapter right now you should think about all the other sisters and all the other chapters around the world that hold the same ideals of sisterhood.
Being part of a National Sorority lets you seek sisterhood outside of your chapter...and guess what? Greekchat is the BEST place to find that support. My GC sisters mean so much to me...I'm even closer to some of them than some of my chapter sisters. They're always here for me.
If you're really miserable, then nothing we say is going to make you change your mind. But I suggest really thinking about whether you want to let a couple of JERKS drive you out of a sorority that you've put SO much into. Like Dionysus said, get close to the incomming pledge classes because that is where you can make the difference.
Keep us posted.
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