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My advice to alwasy be the change you wish to see. If you are not happy with the way your fraternity is now, become a leader. Step up and take responsibility and help lead your chapter to a higher level.
With that said, being a member of any GLO is more than just socials and having a good time. It is learning life skills that will help you in the future. If your brothers are more reserved and need help networking, then seize your oppertunity as an outgoing member to help them become more outgoing. You said you are a member of a new chapter on campus. That is an oppertunity to create any identity you want! Of course it should be a positive one. Being the biggest partiers on campus isn't going to help you attract quality members. But being and active chapter, socially and through service and campus involvement, you will see a change in your group and the men you attract during recruitment.
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