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I've tried match.com, which was okay. I met my ex through that and that relationship, well to put it nicely didn't end very pleasantly (he was incredibly awful to me).
My biggest "pet-peeve" with eharmony is that I want kids, there is no if, ands, or buts about it. So I find it really annoying when I get matched with men who say "maybe" on the kids issue. Maybe isn't good enough for me. I know that sounds shallow but I have seen way to many marriages go bust because 1 person wanted kids and the other spouse didn't. Honestly, that is how I weed through my crazy amount of matches if they say "maybe" to kids I just close the match. IDK in my opinion, you either want kids or you don't want kids, there shouldn't be a "maybe".
I find eharmony just like match.com, you may "match up" perfect on paper but meeting in person is another issue entirely.
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