Dion, I guess this shows you just what a Site like this can do or try to help you do and to give comfort!
This is the most uncultured Site I know!
By that before I get my butt shot down( weird mood today) that what We have here is a bunch of different types of people from all walks of life who have been through it, or are going through it!
Heck kiddo, We have pretty much seen it all! Give any and all of a chance to be of help!
From Us to you!
Welcome aboard and ask away anytime!