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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek
some members of his family were in jail, or on drugs
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This matters to me but not because I will judge him. I will judge his family and those family members won't be coming around our household.
If someone is not taking charge of their life and/or in trouble all the time, I refuse to allow them to add drama to my life. That includes constantly having a problem to talk about or asking to borrow money. I feel no shame in telling anyone "no."