Well, Guardian, I didn't feel particularly disrespected because you are interested in Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Inc. I'm a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc.
You should not leave GC -- we don't have enough "menses" around here.
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GC should be part of your research, but you really need to get to know members on your campus and participate in functions. Besides, we have some interesting non-Greek topics to participate in.