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Rushing as a sophomore at some schools can be an advantage, but it does depend on your school. If you spend your freshman year concentrating on what's best for you, like making good grades, finding other organizations on campus to get involved in, and making friends, that could help you your next time around. They'll see that you can handle college and that you can be an asset to their organization.
Truthfully, your behavior, weight, etc. CAN have an effect on your recruitment, but that shouldn't be your FIRST concern. No matter what, just be confident. If sororities don't want to give you a bid because you're overweight, for instance, then they probably aren't very mature as a group, anyway, and you should find other people to hang out with. Have fun, but don't have sex on the pool table at the fraternity house. Be comfortable with your body, but dress it to its advantage. (If you're really tiny, find something that makes you stand out. If you're a little overweight, wear clothing that fits and isn't too tight...actually, no one should wear clothing that's too tight. If you have a bigger chest, save the cleavage for the club. Being able to dress your best shows confidence.).
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