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From what I've read it sounds like your brothers have been nothing but nice to you. Now you want to drop and attempt to pledge a different fraternity just because of the size? Very shady.
If I was one of your brothers and this was your excuse I'd be the first one to tell my friends in other fraternities to stay away from you. Dropping them shows that you have little loyalty and other chapters on campus (especially the larger ones) won't want to have a disloyal person in their ranks.
So your only two reasons are a lack of bonding (which doesn't seem like a good reason in your case since it seems like you aren't even trying to bond with them) and a lack of time (which you said yourself won't be a problem next semester). Not a good reason for dropping. My advice is to stay and make a better attempt at bonding, but if you aren't going to sincerely try, save your brothers the hassle and just drop so you don't turn into that member who never shows up to events and only goes to chapter.
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