[AOII Angel]

There is no magic sisterhood that makes you feel connected just by getting a bid. If you want sisterhood, then you have to work for it. Make an effort to get to know other people in your chapter. You wouldn't instantly connect with your biological sisters either if you just met them. You have a connection to your biological siblings because you were raised together and went through lots of things together. Sisterhood is built over years of shared experiences (good and bad) and shared values. I think we do PNMs and NMs a disservice by suggesting that you can realistically get a true connection with a chapter or its members instantaneously.