Thread: de-pledging ?
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Old 11-13-2008, 05:22 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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If people are telling you that sophomores have a hard time getting bids. they are probably correct. So if you DO drop out, understand that you may not get a bid next year if you rush again.

Something to ask yourself:

Are you making an effort to meet and get to know other members? Or are you sitting back and waiting for them to reach out to you? Developing friendships is a two way street. You can't just sit back and expect girls to become BFFs with you just because you're a new member.

I've seen plenty of girls drop out claiming that "they just didn't connect" when they never really tried to.

You have to reach out to other girls, and invite them to do stuff too. Also, don't just hang out exclusively with girls in your NM class. Get to know other girls as well.

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