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Originally Posted by TriDeltaSallie
I think one other complication can come from within the chapter itself when part of the chapter is perfectly happy with being smaller and "less popular" and another part isn't. As you said, some women join for friendship, leadership, etc. and the number and perceived quality of the mixers isn't a big deal to them. Then there are other women who feel the snubs acutely. It can make it challenging within the chapter itself.
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True dat. But I think that there is a way for the women who are interested in being more "social" to nudge the rest of the chapter that way without making them feel like they're compromising their integrity. These are the women who joined because they truly loved the members of the chapter and whatever they do is to make the chapter better and the women's lives happier.
And then there are those who joined it as a "second choice" because they didn't get a bid to their first choice and will never stop pushing for XYZ to turn into ABC. News flash: YOU DIDN'T GET INTO ABC - YOU'RE NOT ABC MATERIAL, DEAL WITH IT. These people are just worried about what others think when they say "I'm an XYZ." We had a thread on here like that.
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=76336