[RU OX Alum]

you felt something in your sorority right? Maybe get those girls who want to drop to stay and then you will have each other, to start with at least, and can bid more girls like you. This is your college experience, so you are the one who should shape it, but not knowing anything about your campus, no one can really say how hard it will be for you to get a bid somewhere else.

I don't think that the people who would not bid you because you already pledged somewhere would see missing the first day of recruitment as an acceptable excuse to depledge though.

It's hard to say, though, what you should do, without knowing anything hardly about your situation. Are you not connecting with your pledge class, or with other/older members? Do you have a big sister? Is it a big pledge class? A big campus??

I would try finding maybe someone else in your sorority to talk to, or someone you can trust.

Remember though, connections take time, friendship isn't always right away.