ok so here's my dilemma. i've pledged at a sorority on my campus, but I just dont seem to be like the other girls, it's a terrible fit for me. I've tried to stick it out and get to know the girls, but i got my bid from them in august and it's now november (and initiation is next month), and it seems to actually be getting worse. the girls i have connected with all want to drop.
this is why i wanted to drop my sorority and try rushing again next fall. from what i've heard, it will be extremely hard because i'll be a sophomore and i'd already accepted a bid from another sorority. however, in my defense, i missed the first day of recruitment, so instead of meeting all of the houses i only met half took my pick from those, so i never had the right start.
do you think there's a chance of getting a bid from anyone else if i drop ? i'd rather be in what i'm in now than not greek at all, but i'd MUCH rather be in a sisterhood where i feel connected, not like the only black sheep.
help !
