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I am a recently initiated member (Fall '08) and it was recommended that we do things but that didn't necessarily mean performing in them. We were never required to do anything that we weren't comfortable with. I feel that the actives in your sorority and your new member sisters will think just as highly of you if they see you cheering in the crowd and just being there for support. And on another note, quite personally, I would have even more respect for you for stepping up and saying that you're not comfortable with something instead of doing it just because you think you have to!
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