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Originally Posted by Juliette
but the delta chi chapter at my school only has about 60 guys including actives and AMs so i got to know the guys pretty quick.
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This sentence alone makes me think that you're getting ahead of yourself. I was considered a sweetheart after 2 years by a chapter of about 20-30 guys. And it took you 2 months to get to know 60?
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Originally Posted by PANTHERTEKE
Also, when a girl tries to "campaign" and win over the guys (such as baking cookies, making t-shirts saying 'I <3 XYZ', etc), then the guys take notice and see through your insincere attempts.
The Sweetheart title should be an honor to you and not just something you want to do because it'll make you cool.
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Definitely true. I knew one girl who tried sucking up to a chapter, baking them food all the time. The guys saw through it (but they still ate the food.. 'cause they're guys.. and it's food), and they would talk about her sad attempts at gaining approval when she wasn't around.
Just continue supporting them however possible. I know Delta Chis from across the country and I haven't met one that I didn't like. They're a great group of guys. Enjoy your 4 years with them
