[kyang08]

Ok. I'm in my freshmen year of college. i never thought about joining a fraternity. but one day at a party i talked to some guys and they got me to go to some events. it seemed cool, i just followed along. i decided to pledge and ive been 4-5 weeks in. we are probably going to be initiated soon. the problem is that i don't feel a connection with my pledge class. im the only one that lives far from campus and i dont seem to ever associate with them outside of pledge events. should i just drop now even though im so deep in and wait winter semester to actually rush so i can see other fraternities? (i never rushed to see other fraternities) now i have the thought in the back of my mind that i wont be able to bond with pledge brothers in winter semester because we have less time. ehh. i should i have just rushed fall semester. would be so much easier.

thanks!