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Originally Posted by ASTalumna06
I mean a big/little sister program, like the one being described in this thread.. where the fraternity has "little sisters", I guess? I don't know! haha
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Big Brother/Little Sister and/or Big Sister/Little Brother.
Although all the NPHC organizations except for Iota ban the auxilliary unit types of things, I can't say that I've heard of my fraternity having an official position against having a "spec" (short for "special") outside of the fraternity.
In my experience, having a spec is similar to what the original poster described -- a special relationship between two members of different orgs for whatever reason.
Basically, it builds unity between chapters and is an excuse to give gifts.
Anyway..... I like my paddles big and guady. The bigger the paddle, the more your love is proven. I don't think all guys think this way, but hey, I do.