[33girl]

This goes with what KSUViolet said about don't focus too much on "selling the sorority" - don't freak out if your conversation segues from philanthropy to something totally unrelated (like, oh, Rock of Love). If you keep forcing the PNM to discuss "sorority" things it'll turn her off. Just go with the mood. Of course, if she keeps asking questions like "which sororities haze/drink/sleep around" just let her know, nicely but firmly, that discussing other sororities is a rush infraction and can get you both in trouble.

If your chapter is large enough that not everyone is on the floor and you KNOW you utterly suck at rush - don't be afraid to say so. It doesn't make you less of a sister or less important - you are simply being self aware enough to realize you could do more harm than good.

Don't bitch about the clothing choices, even if you think they are horrendous. You don't have to wear them that long. Of course if the rush chair has chosen short shorts and tube tops for a chapter filled with D cup women, she needs a talking to.