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Old 10-29-2008, 02:56 AM
APhiAnna APhiAnna is offline
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One of my friends went to a school with deferred rush and was the "total package" so to speak...looks, grades, personality, GPA, recs, all that. The most competitive sorority on her campus was obsessed with her and dirty rushed her to no end. They would always call her up to party with the sisters, bid promised, all that good stuff. They were fighting the other sororities away to try to get this girl.

Guess what? One night she got wasted with the sisters as usual...but this time she made-out with a sister's crush (she didn't even know the sister was interested in this guy!). No sex, just making out at a public party. Whoops. Anyways the sister flipped out and got in a huge fight with her. Not only did that chapter stop calling her, but other chapters took a step back. She was dropped first night by this chapter and some of the other competitive ones that had been seeking her out.

Moral of the story? Even if they are throwing booze and guys at you, tread with caution...don't be the "party pooper" but be very much aware that so much can go wrong even when so much is "going right".
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