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Originally Posted by vandycandy

I'm kind of worried after what you said, basket, because I have hooked up with a few guys here (but have not slept with anyone and by no means have "gotten around" like so many girls here. Also I knew all the guys before I hooked up with them- I didn't just meet them playing beirut or dancing that night!). I'm afraid that could hurt my chances of being respected and getting in. Also, I have been at parties with girls in ABC where we were ALL drinking so that's cool, right? I feel like those could be the only 2 things in my way...

Hooking up in itself is not the issue. The issue arises when it GETS AROUND that you hooked up with people. It's an even bigger issue if the guys know alot of sorority women or are in fraternities themselves.

It's hard to explain, but the act itself isn't a problem, it's what people say/rumors about it that cause problems with recruitment. All it takes is one misunderstanding or something for a rumor to get started.

And as far as drinking, I really would keep a low profile when doing so. I would suggest NOT drinking with sorority girls at all. It's a slippery slope. All it takes is one time for you to go out, have too much to drink, and make a scene for them to be like "OMG vandycandy was being a ridiculous drunk scene."