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Old 10-25-2008, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Ggirl617 View Post
i just didn't want to join a sorority i wasn't absolutely in love with. i think that makes sense
You're right. That does make sense. However, how could you know you wouldn't love any of the other sororities by dropping out so early in recruitment? Perceptions of chapters change through recruitment, even if you've already been through once before or you're a sophomore and you know the chapters pretty well.

That's what everyone else is saying about a closed mind. Maybe the first time it was right to drop (because you went until pref round, although you could have gone to the parties and then dropped after just to see if it changed your mind), but the second time you dropped after the first round. You didn't give everyone else a fair shot.
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