I do live in the south and know that people have this prevailing attitude. But, I, for one, just want my daughter to be happy. My daughter had a terrible rush her freshman year and withdrew. I was not embarrassed. I was very proud of the way she picked herself up, had a great freshman year and rerushed at a very competitive school and had a great rush the second go round. It was all her doing and that is as it should be. I agree that if the OP's daughter found this thread, she would be mortified, but, how many other girls could possibly think that this is their mom? By this mom putting her feelings in an open forum, many other daughters may get hurt feelings.
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