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Originally Posted by LowLite
She tells me it's ok and that she and her parents would pay. My parents also want to see us marry and are willing to help pay for a nice wedding.
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I think that this is the crux of it - I don't think you would be as upset if the parents weren't involved and it was just between the two of you.
You can have a nice wedding without breaking the bank. It just sounds like she and her parents want to have something huge and ornate and are thinking more about the wedding than the marriage.
I don't know what facet of comm you focused on, but if you're trying to get into radio, unless you are Howard Stern, I pretty much GUARANTEE you - your wife is always going to make more than you. A lot of positions, unless you are in NYC or LA - you're not going to be making big bucks. Not that they won't be enjoyable, but don't think you're going to be rich.
Try a temp agency if you haven't already. And sit down with her and reevaluate what exactly the wedding is going to be.