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I say message first because requesting as friend is very assuming. Plus unless your friends list is set to private others can see your intentions. I asked within the message if it was ok to exchange numbers first then if it was ok to request as a friend. Sorry for not clarifying but it was long enough already. I see the logic in friends too but I didn't get luck with that until my face was known or they at least knew my intent. (Usually a guy requesting another guy he doesn't know as a friend seems suspect) No offense at all. Thank you by the way.