I think you should step back and reassess things. If after two years of pursuing this sorority you're not getting anywhere at all... then
I think you know what that means, but just don't want to see it as you're emotionally and (to an extent) financially invested in this group. If AI is by invitation only, and after two years you haven't received an invitation, then IMHO the proverbial handwriting is on the wall, and probably has been for a long time. You need to read it, hon. As painful as it is, it is what it is. I'm sorry you haven't had the result you wanted.
Unfortunately, you wanting them is not enough to make them want you back. I'd advise you to retain your remaining dignity and self-esteem and stop pursuing them. If you really want to be a member of a sorority, turn your attention to another group that won't make you jump through hoops at all, or certainly not for years.
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Originally Posted by wannab1ofu
for the last two years i have attended many events for membership in a certain graduate level sorority. i will attend events make contacts and then nothing. recently i was sent an invite for yet another fundraiser from a member of the chapter and i am unsure of whether or not i sholud continue to buy tickets to these events if nothing ever becomes of these meetings but an occ email or phone call. I do not know any member fully, but it seems as if grad chapters are more into getting funds than adding quality members. any advice?
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