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Originally Posted by hairbrush390
I am actually in the midst of second rounds (i have a break right now!) but I only got 3 back, the 3 that I have cut every time but have still got invited back to. I am really not interested in them, not just because they arent "cool", but becasue I feel very awkward talking to them and being with them. I want to go into srping recruitment just to try to get another chance with a smaller group of people.
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I guarantee that after two days you do not know everything you need to know about these chapters. I know it is disappointing to be rejected, but you have an opportunity to get to know chapters that want to get to know you. Go back to any chapter that invites you back next round and try to look at them with new eyes. Feeling "awkward" talking to people at recruitment is not that unusual......it's an awkward situation for many people. Despite the popular opinion, you don't have to "fall in love" with a chapter to have a wonderful sorority experience. There have been many women who LOVED their sorority during recruitment who were really disappointed when the got in because what they saw in recruitment wasn't really what the chapter was like.