[33girl]

I'm going to play (I think) devil's advocate and say that if your nationals OKed a recruitment advisor (for a formal recruitment-having school) that had no training or experience in formal recruitment, then part of the stupid is definitely on them. These women need to be vetted to make sure they're right for the position, not just rubber stamped because another advisor OKs them or because they volunteered for it.

I take it none of y'all are actually alumnae of this particular chapter - that would be just another can of worms on top of the one that's already open.

It also sounds like Jenny may have been confused as to what your actual role is - whether you were "official" or whether you were just helping out because you happened to be there.

You def need a 3rd party's help with this - go to your district head or whatever it's called, or your volunteer coordinator, and clear everything up via email as to who is doing what because I think that's a big part of the problem here.