Unless there were problems before this, I don't think the chapter would get closed for asking for help. But I also wouldn't go to nationals with all these problems. Instead just slimply state you need some help with recruitment and values based recruitment because you're afraid things are heading the in wrong direction. You can ask for help without trying to get people in trouble. If it's possible you're nationals could send someone to help get your chapter back in track. These personal problems should be solved before that person gets there though. I mean, even though my chapter is really on track with what our IGB wants, there are still things we wouldn't tell them. I don't think your chapter would get in trouble or be closed for fighting about who to give a bid, but it's not your national's job to solve those little problems. It is their job, however, to guide you in how to chose who to give a bid to.