Before you go to HQ, sit back, take a deep breath and think hard about your motives. Are you trying to get your chapter closed to get back at the younger girls (who will be most affected) who made a decision you don't agree with or are you really concerned about rooting out a major problem that your alumnae haven't been able to control? If you haven't given your advisers a chance to handle the problem, then you're not doing your chapter a favor by going straight to nationals. Have the older sisters get together and explain to the younger girls why you are concerned about the treatment of this PNM and how upset you are that your standards are changing. In the end, however, you have to accept that soon you will no longer have any say in who the chapter pledges.
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