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Old 09-23-2008, 10:35 PM
violetpretty violetpretty is offline
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Originally Posted by AOII Angel View Post
Sounds like your chapter worked COB like "I heart recruitment" recommends. This is a great book that could really help your chapter, ASTalum06. The entire book focuses on how to cultivate friendships with women you are interested in pledging and "popping" the big questions about joining.
That's exactly what I was thinking. It's one thing to tell someone to "stop by the house for ice cream" when in reality you're having a COB event, but no harm (and not necessarily any motive in bidding someone) if you ask a friend to go to Coldstone with you and a sister meets you there. Face it, recruitment, whether formal recruitment or COB events is a series of artificial situations. Going somewhere with one friend and having another meet you there happens all the time in real life. IMO, it's a great way to introduce people to your chapter by introducing them to the individuals within it rather than "come to a COB event"!
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