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Old 09-23-2008, 05:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Kansas City View Post
I think that you have to be careful. Around the wrong PNM, it might offend them to the point of scaring them off. I'd prefer to be a bit more forthcoming with the COBing.
Not only that, what if the PNM does join, and then the next semester you're using this strategy again, and she realizes she was tricked? Some people might look at it as a big practical joke and not be any the worse for wear, but some might be upset enough to quit.

Plan to go to a movie with some sisters, and invite your roomie along. If she's anti-joining to the point that she won't even sit in a theater w/ them for two hours, drop it. You don't want to turn your sorority into the next [insert pyramid scheme here] that the minute you mention it people run the other way.
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