The possibilities for things to go wrong are endless...and most of them may not even be things that YOU do! We're all girls, we know how jealousy can make rational women say/think stupid things. For example, maybe a sister is all dressed up to impress the guy she likes and she's been talking to her friends about him all day. Maybe this same guy is trying to talk to you all night (and you're not even interested!). He completely ignores the active. The active could get really jealous and attach all types of things to your name that don't even belong there. Is it fair? Not at all. Is it petty? Sure thing. But during recruitment it is rare that somebody questions what your sisters say about a PNM...you are too tired to not take things at face value. Better safe than sorry.
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