[KSUViolet06]

It's best for PNMs to take a break from going out during recruitment.

I've seen it happen where one misunderstanding with a sorority member at a party really affects a PNMs recruitment negatively. It happens all the time (especially when people are drinking).

For example: You accidentally spill your drink on a sorority member and she makes a scene, but you apologize and walk away. She tells all her friends in her sorority that you spilled a drink on her and gave her a dirty look at the XYZ party. That may not be true, but that's how she saw it. Her entire sorority now thinks you're a bitch because of one spilled drink and drunken misunderstanding at a party. That's not good. Then if she tells her friends in other chapters the same thing, that's REALLY not good. Recruitment is not going to go well for you.

My advice to to avoid the frat parties, because if you aren't there, there is no potential for drama. But if you are there, you never know what a sorority member may see and think.