True Gent,
I saw a young woman's heart broken because she had listened to the well-meaning opinions of her loving older brother. She cut houses that liked her, because her brother was the one doing the tent talk. You can't protect her by getting in her way. She has to find her own way. Georgia Southern is a lovely university with an active Greek system and many terrific choices for your sister. Help her by NOT helping her. Network with your mom to get her connected to recs (as someone said earlier), and then let her go. You'll have done your job, and left her job to her. Don't take it too hard when we jump on you so quickly. This site tries very hard not to get anywhere near the trash talk and devisiveness you may find elsewhere, so that's why we respond with such passion. We all wish your lil sis only the best, and don't blame you for your worry. Now, it's time to let it rest and let her do the rest.
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