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Some of this depends on your campus.
The idea that you will be identified by your user name is plausible but I'm very certain nobody from my Greek system would ever put it together. And, if they did, all they'd see is that you have valid concerns.
Go out for recruitment. If you get a bid, they like you. If you allow yourself to fit in and you enjoy it, be initiated. The fun of joining late is that you still have energy to be active when you graduate.
And get some confidence going. You're an asset, not a liability. A chapter benefits from someone with more maturity and experience than the average freshman. And you can even help the young ones navigate through the recruitment process.
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