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RareTreasure, what happens when other people tell you what to do? If your mother was saying the same things as your boyfriend, would you give in, or beg her for her support? I have a 20 year old daughter. She is very independent. If she believes in something, than nothing I say will sway her. As a young woman, you really need to learn to stand on your own two feet, believe in yourself and your ability to make good decisions for yourself, and then do it. This sounds like a confidence problem to me. Look in the mirror and tell yourself that you know what is best for yourself. Believe in yourself and then kick him to the curb if he tries to belittle you for making your own decision. If he really loves you then he will support you, if he does not, then I would say that it is not real love. You are young, move on.
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