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33girl is right. There is no magical "sisterhood" that develops the second you get your bid. Sisterhood is formed by mutual experience and relationships formed over time. You have to make the effort to meet people. Yeah...no one is focusing directly on you like they had to during rush because they have a life and other things to do! Make a point to meet your pledge sisters...ask them to go to lunch or dinner. Meet up to study. Find out if any of your sisters are in your class...that's how I met my Big Sis! Do you have any biological sisters? Are you close because you are sisters? No...you're close because you grew up together and shared experiences! The same applies to sorority sisters...just give it some time and patience.
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