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Feeling let down after getting your bid (especially if rush was competitive) is absolutely normal.
You need to stop calling yourself a shy person - it's a self fulfilling prophecy. Go to all the events you can and make it a point to talk to at least 5 new people at each one.
Also, the other sororities and pledges are busy with their own pledge programs - it's about them and their lack of time, not you. If people you were friends with would really drop you because of where you pledged, they aren't friends to begin with.
Have you received your big sister yet?
Bonds take a while to form - they are not overnight. You've known these girls for, at the very most, 6 weeks. Hang in there, and be patient!!
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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