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Originally Posted by RareTreasure
He and I argue constantly, but i think its because he is a "know it all," and he thinks every one is wrong but him. Be both just dont let go when it comes to an argument. Were both stubborn. I dont know if thats a bad thing or not. And he's opinionated about everything!!!!!!! I mean everything!!!! About everything but what you ask him his opinion on! lol. He judges me too much in my life for me to live it any other way other that what he thinks is "real." I does sound soo bad when I read what I write.
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Sweetheart, let's put this plainly, you are in a dangerous relationship and I think you need to go to your on campus safety office and ask some questions. Yes, you may have invested a lot of time in this, but in the grand scheme of your overall life, you will still be held accountable for how you lived your life.
Basically, there are insecurities between you and him and you are all too youthful to have an intense discrepancy of how you choose to live your life and spend your money...
Now, he cannot dictate that "all or nothing" onto anyone but himself. Because what will happen in the future is if you do "X", I am not going to be with you... "Reward behavior"--what is your reward? The one you value, the one that has minimal costs, the one that provides a "net utility"?
Stay blessed and in Ariafya!