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			In your 1st post, you said that he said that joining a sorority is a want not a necessity.  In the post where you mentioned your 2 jobs, you enumerated all his wants concerning your decision.  He can have wants and you can't?!?  Let me reiterate what others have said, get out of this abusive relationship now! 
 
Really from some of the things you have said, it doesn't sound like you love him but are just used to being in a relationship with him.  Look down the road.  Will he not want you to join a garden club because it will take time away from him?  Will this friend or that family member not be acceptable to him?  He is a controller--that is not love.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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