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Originally Posted by RareTreasure
He doesn't want me to seek support any where else. He wants to be everything.
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That right there - to me, that screams abuse. It doesn't matter if he's not hitting you or threatening you, it's still abuse. "Do what I say or I'm going to leave" is abusive.
My gut, from what you've posted: Whether or not you join a sorority, you need to get out of that relationship. I know you love him, but this doesn't sound good for you. By keeping you from developing social networks other than him, he's kept you from growing into a whole person at the precise time in your life when you're supposed to be growing into a whole person. If he leaves you 5 or 10 years from now, you'll be in a lot worse shape.
Get out now.